Emily Tellwright

Author, Artist, Publisher

Don’t Mention the War: Memories of World War II

Featured image for the post Don't Mention the War: Memories of World War II. A pastel drawing of the view from St Mary's Church, Kempley.

Summary

Another WWII anniversary came and went this month. What are we remembering exactly? This month I share my own memories of participants in the Second World War, celebrate the recognition of pioneering plastic surgeon John Grocott and include a brief review of Russell Phillips’ book, ‘A Strange Campaign: The Battle for Madagascar.’

Memories of World War II

I hope it will surprise no one reading this to learn that I am not old enough to have direct memories of World War II. I am however, old enough to have grown up among people who not only lived through ‘The War’ as it was universally called, but were constantly remembering it. People whose lives had been permanently shaped by it, sometimes dramatically. In my youth I was sick of hearing about the whole thing. Just don’t mention the war, or you’ll start someone off …

What are we celebrating?

Forty years on, and I’ve been hearing a lot about the Second World War again this month. 80 years of VE day? Haven’t we just celebrated its 75th anniversary? And the 80th anniversary of D-Day? Britain does have other history worth remembering. Why are the media and government still so fixated with ‘The War’? Now that most people who remember it are gone, what exactly are we celebrating?

There are many things to celebrate about World War II. So many people showed enormous courage, resilience and determination and put their most compassionate and generous sides to the fore. Great creativity and ingenuity found solutions and new developments in technology, the sciences, medicine and other areas. An evil regime was stopped and there was finally a permanent peace among the countries of western Europe.

So let’s not allow it to become a media feel-good stunt. It wasn’t a football match. Not one of the many people I knew who lived through World War II would appreciate that. If we’re going to remember ‘The War’, let’s remember history not propaganda.

Real Memories of World War II

Real memories of World War II will tell you that it was no one’s victory, except perhaps for a few who made money. Our country was devastated by it and encumbered with enormous ensuing debt. Great numbers of our people were damaged mentally or physically if they survived at all.

Before the Second World War

Life had been hard for most people in Britain before World War II. My father, Allan Tellwright, was already in the Merchant Navy when war broke out. He said that the usual treatment of sailors was such that the war made no difference in terms of hardship. In fact they were more likely to get fed on board.

My grandfather, Alf Mountford, was forced to leave a good job due to ill health in the 1930s. He competed with hundreds of other men to get the only job he could, as a lavatory attendant, to keep his family alive.

My ‘Uncle’ Arthur’s father had lost a limb in the First World War, which had caused great hardship for his family.

How would they be celebrating?

These were men who were glad to be English, who thought Nazism and Fascism were things that should be fought and stopped and were proud that they’d succeeded. They were not radical or left-wing. But they also saw enough not to think that our side won because we were intrinsically better, or that everything done on our side was unequivocally right. And none of them forgot what they’d given when their country required it, and how little that country had given when they’d been in need.

At the end of the Second World War, they all went into work improving life in Britain. My father became a teacher, my grandfather worked in local government and my ‘uncle’ in what would become the Department of Health and Social Security. I don’t think they would find much worthy of celebration in the poverty and societal erosion we see all around us today. They might wonder why we were celebrating at all when we have failed so comprehensively to build something good from what they gave and the work that they did.

An Unsung Hero of World War II

John Grocott, Pioneering Plastic Surgeon

A blue plaque commemorating John Grocott, pioneer plastic surgeon

John was born and worked here in Stoke-on-Trent. He won a scholarship to Guy’s Medical School in 1927 and in 1939 at the age of 29 was left in sole charge of the only plastic surgery unit north of London. Thousands of injured servicemen came here during the Second World War to have reconstructive surgery. Ros has uncovered some of the incredible, life-changing results that John Grocott achieved for them in a book packed with inspiring stories and great characters.

Unsung Heroes of Wartime Stoke by Ros Unwin

John was a self-effacing man, not keen on publicity, which is partly why his outstanding work and career were not in the historical record. Fellow local author Ros has worked tirelessly to broadcast his story and gain him the recognition he deserves.

A Strange Campaign: The Battle for Madagascar by Russell Phillips

A little-remembered but significant episode of World War II and a good story.

A Strange Campaign: The Battle for Madagascar by Russell Phillips

Not Perfect

I particularly liked the insights into relations between the French factions and between the French and the British, both of which affected politics after 1945. The attitudes of the Senegalese and the Malagasy were also interesting.

The imperfect execution of war was also clear. Success was not guaranteed. The British authorities frequently differed and delayed, while everyone had flawed information and made wrong assumptions at some point. Not everything that was tried worked. But there were clever strategy and planning, successful new technology, excellent and courageous research and incredible bravery.

Don’t Mention the War

Identity

Don’t mention the war, at least for a while.

Let’s have a rest from World War II anniversaries for a few years and save them up for the centenaries. In the meantime, we can investigate and remember other aspects and eras of our history and broaden our perspectives about our background, identity and environment. And we can work on making our own times worthy of remembrance. So when those centenaries come round we won’t just be waving flags and saying it’s great to be British because we were on the winning side a hundred years ago. We can feel glad to be British because it means being part of good things here and now. Things which all those who persevered through World War II, whether they perished or survived, could agree are worth celebrating.

This month’s featured image is View from St Mary’s Church, Kempley by Emily Tellwright, 2025.

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